Did you ever hear the fable about finding a soulmate? “Once upon a time, a lonely traveler wandered through a forest, searching for his soulmate. It wasn’t until he stumbled upon a clearing filled with vibrant flowers that he discovered his soulmate, a butterfly whose colors matched his own clothes, fluttering gracefully in perfect harmony with his own movements.” Okay, that’s a bunch of crap, and frankly, dangerous advice. Don’t wander alone through forests, instead, try online dating or a matchmaking service (but not Aunty Barbara, NEVER use her matchmaking service).